How to

Stimulate the "G-spot"

Once considered the ultimate way to orgasm, there is so much MORE to the mysterious and elusive "G-spot".

Right inside the vagina, on the anterior (front) wall, there exists a zone of tissue that elicits a pleasurable, even orgasmic, sensation with stimulated.  Finding this "spot" is reported by around 63% of the female population.  This can be described as a majority, but also means near 40% of vagina owners do not report finding their own G-spot.  This exemplifies the ongoing debate of the existence of any anatomical structure that can be labeled as the "G-spot".  If there was, like the clitoris, would not all of us have no problem locating and stimulating this happy place?  

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So what DO we know about the G-spot and deriving sexual pleasure from it?

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The G-spot has experienced a lot of attention over recent decades despite being aware of its existence for much longer.  It is named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg since he was the first to describe the area's pleasure potential in the 1950's.  The G-spot, G-area really, is an area of erectile tissue and nerves, including the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerve network.   So, it can be said the that G-spot stimulation is sort of stimulating the clitoris, but from the other direction.

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While the G-spot is not really a specific structure, or even "spot", we can point at, there is something there that gives the majority of the population pleasure.  This real, lived experience cannot be denied and seeking pleasure from this wily erogenous zone is worth pursuing wholeheartedly.  While you may go on to have no luck in deriving pleasure or orgasm in their G-zone quest, at least you can have best chance with the recommendations below.  At the very least, here is what we tell those asking us for advice:  Think of G-spot play like sailing, it isn't as much about the destination as it is about the journey.  

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Set the mood - If you have previously had troubles with G-area play, or have not tried before, be sure to set the right mood.  By that we mean a comfortable environment and plenty of time.   This encourages relaxation, lowers pressure and stress, and allows you to be as receptive to pleasure as possible.  This could mean having a solo session or two.  Prep with whatever brings you comfort and minimizes distractions.  Remember, if you want to reach any destination, the journey must be as enjoyable as possible. 

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Arousal - It helps to be as aroused as possible.  If that

Finding

Stimulate with fingers

Stimulated with toy

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TAP/CLICK HERE to learn more about vaginal anatomy.

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nd is stimulated with firm pressure and massage from just inside the vagina.

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